Pretty Girl

2012
05.19

Ella’s Aunty Tiff is an amazing jewelery maker!! Wow! I’m always impressed by the new stuff she comes up with. Very creative. The last time she was here she brought these crocheted necklaces. Yep, you heard that right, they are crochet, with wire and beads!! They have been parked on our kitchen bar and since that’s where I’m normally stationed when I play on my laptop, Ella had been amusing herself with them. She loves pretty things. :) Oh, and she loves to be on my lap whenever I’m sitting here too.

Anyway, on this day she decided that these “pretties” would look good as a crown or tiara! Ha! She cracks me up!

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I’ve put them around her neck, but she doesn’t like them there for long. This, however was all her own idea, so of course better. ;)

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Funny little gal! I’m glad she has an Auntie who likes girly stuff, or she might just never get to be “princessy” :)

My Thoughts on Sugar

2012
05.17

So I’m not a nutritionalist, and if one were to read this they’d probably just laugh at my ignorance. :) That’s okay, I’m not trying to be all knowledgeable, just sharing some conclusions that I’ve come to. Oh and they’re not set in stone of course. Just like most fitness “advice” that we’ve all seen come and go (eggs anyone?) perceptions do change. :)

Anyway, so in my fitness challenge that started in March we were able to ‘earn’ a bonus point by avoiding sweets. Since sweet is such a broad term they basically clarified it as refined sugar. So… with that in mind I went about seeking ways to stay away from sugar but still satisfy that sweet craving that I often get after lunch.

By the way, I have read a bunch on different sugar and sweeteners and the way that they impact your blood sugar (glucose levels) and so most of what I’ve come up with is based on different articles and such that I’ve read from time to time.

The first time I ever heard of the glycemic index was shortly after getting married. Stuart and I started reading about it and it’s really quite interesting. I couldn’t really wrap my head completely around what foods were “high” on the index (bad) and which were “low” (good) at that time. I printed out this HUGE pile of papers that had the index and where foods fell on it, but it was difficult to navigate. Since then I’ve read and understand much more about the whole thing. I still couldn’t break it down to someone who had no clue though, and again I’d hate for a real nutritionalist to critique my “info” but for me it works. :)

White sugar (and flour for that matter) are HIGH on the index. Which means that when you eat something with a lot of sugar in it, your body metabolizes it FAST and it causes your blood sugar to spike. In turn this makes your body release more insulin to cope with the spike and all kinds of bad stuff happens to you on a molecular level. Make perfect sense? :) If you are trying to eat a balanced diet, and lose or maintain weight and keep your body chemistry in balance, your goal is to avoid spikes in blood sugar. SO you eat things that don’t metabolize that quickly. Think protein, nuts, veggies and some fruits as well if eaten with other stuff, and fats.

As far as sweeteners go, I’ve already made the decision that I do NOT want to go the chemical sweetener route. Sugar may be bad, but fake stuff is WAY bad. That is my opinion, and you are certainly welcome to disagree. Do what works for you. I’m not a fan of chemicals. So my choices for “not chemical” sweeteners are Sugar, Honey, Agave Nectar and Maple Syrup. Sugar is bad so that’s out. So between the other 3 here are some interesting things that I have learned.

Agave and Honey are LOW on the glycemic index. They contain all kinds of vitamin/mineral stuff, but are more like natural fruit sugars and less like refined sugar. So the impact of these on your blood sugar is much less dramatic, especially if eaten with other low GI foods, than white sugar. Maple Syrup is good for you in a lot of ways, however it is molecularly closer to sugar than the other 2. So my advice there is to go easy on the Maple Syrup. I can’t give it up totally because it’s just too yummy! :) Besides it is still better for you than sugar. ;)

So when I am trying to squash that sweet craving without using actual sugar, I resort to those 3 things. I sweeten my morning coffee with a bit of Agave. It has less of it’s own “taste” than honey. I use Honey in my tea both hot and iced. I use Maple or Honey on my plain yogurt. Yum! I also make coconut oil chocolates with some Maple syrup, and my “energy bites” with honey. Those 2 things were my life savers when I first started the challenge.

The thing is, once I had been eating less sugar for a few weeks I found that I didn’t crave as much sweet stuff. I make a frozen fruit smoothie after my workouts in the evening and that stuff is just as good as ice cream and, of course, MUCH better for me! :)

So in a rather large nutshell that’s where I’m at for now. Say no to white sugar, say no to chemical sugar and say yes to natural sweeteners!! :)

“Mawwage”

2012
05.16

Last night when I was praying with the lads before bed it was Myles turn, and he was praying in his customary fashion with eyes wide open “thanking” for anything he could see. He happened to be facing a bookshelf with photos on it and his prayer went something like this, “Dear God, thank you for this food. Thank you for our breakfast tomorrow. Thank you when I was a baby. Thank you Daddy married Mommy. Amen!!” :) It was very cute! When he said “amen” Qade chuckled and said, “Mom did you hear he prayed ‘thank you for this food.” Ha! These lads never cease to crack me up! Myles afterwards asked me, “Did you hear me say thank you Daddy married Mommy?” I told him I did and that I was thankful that Daddy married Mommy too. Then Myles got serious and asked if we were getting married tomorrow. ;) I told him that we got married a long time ago and every day we were still married. Then as he bounced up and sprang off of the couch he said, “You never get married again!” He’s right. :)

Speaking of getting married… kinda…. it was 10 years ago this very month when I first met Stuart. :) Time flies, ya know? 10 years always seems like a long time when you’re at the front of it, but not so long when your at the end. My first sight of Stuart was him playing ping-pong with someone in the chapel room of the lodge at TWR. Those were good times! I miss that camp and those people, but these are good times too, and I’m happy to be where we are.

On other marriage news Qade has informed me that when he is a man he will find a girl that he will love and chose to marry her. :)

Myles told me this morning that Daddy told him that when he gets big he can be a daddy too.

Yesterday I overheard Qade telling Myles that when they grew up they would both be boys and they would find some girls and get married.

Lately the ‘thing’ to play in this house is “mommy and daddy.” One of them will declare “I Mommy” or “I Daddy” and then the other one gets to be who’s left. Then they walk around the house calling each other Stuart and Rachel. ;) SO funny!! They also have their “babies” to take care of. These range from the angry bird to their build-a-bears to their bouncy rubber balls depending on the situation. They are also very nurturing to their babies, singing them lullabies and wrapping them in blankets. At other times they hurl them through the air, or take them out to the trampoline and toss them on the roof of the house. Not sure what all this means, but I’m guessing they’ll be fun dads someday. Provided the wives the ‘find’ don’t let them take the baby to the trampoline. ;)

Ha ha!

Who Knew?

2012
05.16

Last year I learned something about a bush that grows in our backyard. My inlaws told me that it was indeed a Lilac bush. HUH? After living here for 5 years you’d think I would know that. Here’s the thing, it has NEVER bloomed. Not one itty bitty bud of a Lilac flower had I seen. And really… I don’t pay enough attention to the leaves to know that it was a Lilac. Still, since I found out, I gave it a few more drinks this last winter. As in, I tossed the dog water and such on it when before I hadn’t. I didn’t stand out there with the hose and “water” the bush. BUT….. low and behold this spring that poor little dilapidated bush that my boys have nearly destroyed by climbing in it and pretending to be monkeys had…. this.

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That’s right! There were actual Lilac blossoms on that little bush!!!

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True, they still looked a little spindly and struggling, but the fact that they were there is certainly progress!

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They didn’t last long, sad to say. I’m not sure how long Lilacs typically bloom, but I think it’s usually for more than a couple of days. These blossoms didn’t hang around, but again… with all that is stacked up against them, I think it was remarkably brave for them to show their pretty little purple faces at all!

This year I’m going to prune the bush way back, get rid of some of the branches that have been bent so low by the boys, and try to give it a little extra lovin’ to see if we can get some REALLY good blooms next time around. Anyone with actual green thumbs know the best time to prune a Lilac?? :) I could use a few pointers…. obviously!

Fitness Challenge- Join moi

2012
05.13

So my fitness challenge that started in March wrapped up on Mother’s Day. Funny timing, huh? SO after my thoughtful hubby told me to “keep sleeping” when my alarm went off, I took my measurements once I did wake up. ;) I was somewhat nervous about this “after” proof from the challenge, but boy was I happy I had those numbers to compare. Here’s my results:
Chest: – 2.5 inches
Waist: -4.25 inches!!!!
Hips: +1.5 inches
Arms: -.5 each
Legs: -1 inch each

I was pretty thrilled with these shrinkage results. Granted my hips measurement went up, but that’s either because I mismeasured the first time (possible) or my “glutes” are just getting into shape. And that’s fine with me. My rear view has been a little flat, ha! Not that anyone cares but me. Ha ha!

Anyway, I’ll go ahead and tell you that I have not lost a pound. Not one. :) One thing this challenge has done for me has helped me to realize that the scale is the WORST thing to use as a measurement for fitness and health. There’s plenty of examples out there, and I’ve seen and read a few, of people going from a tiny weight, but unfit body to a fit body and a “higher” weight. We’ve been conditioned for a couple of generations at least, to be so closely connected to that number on the scale that we can’t fathom a healthy body without an “ideal” number to go with it. If that’s the only concept that I took away from this challenge it would have been worth it. I can’t tell you the number of times that I’ve felt discouraged by looking at that ridiculous number on the scale, somehow thinking if I could make that change that I’d be “fit” and feel good. Nopers, it doesn’t work that way. So if you’re staring at the scale on a regular basis, STOP IT! ;) They are not your friend, and they are not an accurate way to gage what’s going on in your body.

There are a few other things that I’ve taken away from this challenge, besides inches. One is a lot more energy! Yay! That was one of my original goals in the challenge. I want to be able to have the energy to keep up with my kids. :) Maybe that’s a physical impossibility as they seem to have boundless energy, but I still wanted to feel more energetic than I did. It may have been a combo of things including taking my vitamins regularly, and the fact that summer was approaching, along with the regular exercise that did it. Whatever the reason, I do feel much more energetic now than I did pre-March. :) It may not seem like it as there are days when I still don’t get much done, but I at least feel more energetic at the end rather than like a pile of flesh and bones that can’t wait to drag itself to bed. ;) Another thing is just being much more aware of what I eat. In our challenge we got a point each day for eating our 5 servings of fruit and veggies. I hadn’t realized before this that I was NOT getting enough fruit and veg each day. Who knew?? Now I make more of a conscious effort at EACH meal to get those in, along with having them for snacks. And water intake. That’s always a struggle for me for some reason. Having to think about it and consciously make myself drink more to get my point has really made an impact. Plus the getting fit part has been fantastic!! I still have a ways to go to be where I want to be, but I know I’m much stronger than I was! Push-ups anyone? ;)

Overall I’ve been so amazed at what a little old fashioned competition and accountability will do for a person. I know there are others in the challenge who have seen awesome results as well, and I know we’re all happy that we jumped in and stuck it out together. Even though we mostly only knew each other through Facebook, we were able each day to encourage each other to keep going, and we could also whine to each other about our sore muscles or lack of motivation and get that little nudge from everyone to keep going and stay strong.

That’s why I am going to be starting my own informal fitness challenge on June 4 for friends on FB who might be interested. I’m not a coach, I don’t claim to be a fitness OR nutrition expert. You would still be responsible for your own health and wellness. This is simply a group to have fun with and brag to and whine occasionally if you need it. ;)

Here’s how it’s gong to work. First let me know if you want “in” on the facebook group, I’ll add you to the group, that’s the first step. Second, you need some kind of program. I don’t care if it’s Insanity, like I have, or another of the Beachbody workouts, or it can be Jillian whoever-she-is workout, or Tai-bow or Pilates or whatever! Something that will get you moving for at least 30 min a day that you can do 6 days a week. That’s pretty easy… I mean Richard Simmons could even do that for you. ;) (hurk) Just choose a workout that your comfortable with, but that you know will push you as well. Third… well… let’s get through the first two first, and then we can talk about the rest when it’s time to make it all happen.

That’s it. If you want in, and believe me you do even if you don’t realize it yet, then let me know. We can get fit(er) and stronger together, and have a little fun while we’re at it. ;)

At Home

2012
05.12

You remember our quirky cat, right? Recall how we rescued him from a city shelter? Recall too how he had some very unpleasant quirks, such as using the tub for his littler box and toilet for his water bowl? He also did strange stuff like dig a hole in the snow on the roof and “relieve” himself, burry it in snow and there would be nice little gifts all over the roof when the snow melted. :( And of course, you must remember how the silly city kitty didn’t even know how to climb trees?

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Well, I’m happy to tell you that Liam is still alive and well… quite well, in fact, the cat is HUGE! He has learned a few things since living here with us. Last summer we basically left him outside all summer long, even at night. This helped him get in touch with his feline side. He is welcomed into the house now, for short periods of time, and he behaves himself like a well bred gentleman cat. Occasionally he still heads toward the bathroom, but all I have to do is make a “Tsssssss!” sound and he reverses course. ;) He has been keeping up his end of the arrangement, killing/deterring mice, snakes, lizards and whatever other pests their may be, and he’s done a phenomenal job. :) Even if he did have to learn it all on his own.

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Stuart has claimed a violent dislike for Liam ever since he was so disgustingly quirky after we first got him, but I think if he’d really admit it, he likes to have him around. ;) Liam and Cisco live together in peace if not harmony. Liam still tries to act all offended by Cisco’s presence, and will occasionally make a show of arching his back, or darting up the tree to protest the dog in his presence, but we all know it’s a sham. They get along perfectly well, though Cisco does take advantage of Liam’s moods and teases him on occasion. ;)

All things considered, I think he’s a great cat to have around. I much prefer him to little icky critters and rodents! Oh, and he’s dreadfully attached to me. :) He has almost as violent a dislike for Stuart as Stuart claims to have for him, but he loves to give me kitty kisses, and still likes to jump into my lap (sans claws, he learned THAT lesson) and demand a little attention while purring away. I can’t say I’ll ever love him as much as I did Nung-Nung, she was my first “official” cat, but Liam has worked his way into our hearts and life in his own right. :) Plus, Ella loves the Kitty-Kitty. :)

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Sacked Out

2012
05.11

I went in to Myle’s room after nap one day and found him sleeping like this! Of course I had to get a picture!
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He gets to read books during his nap time, but apparently this day he simply couldn’t make it through the “Six by Seuss” book, ha!

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I can almost imagine a snoring noise, can’t you? ;)

One Ring

2012
05.09

When Ella’s Auntie Tiff was here a few weeks ago, she got her a special gift. It was an adorable little silver ring with a tiny bit of turquoise. I’ve been negligent about girlifying my daughter, probably because I’m not so girly myself. But the Navajo people typically do put their baby girls in rings, bracelets, ornamental barrettes (they usually have more hair too) and necklaces from a VERY early age. I did try with headbands and bows for awhile, but eventually even that became a lot of effort.

Ella, does like to be pretty though, and she now asks for her bows and ring. The bows don’t last more than a few minutes, and I’ve yet to convince her that barrettes are a good thing. ;) Still she love her little ring, and since she can’t get it off by herself, it lasts. :) The first time Tiff and I put it on her she was rather disturbed about this “thing” on her hand. So I was pretty amazed at how quickly she came to love it! It’s so cute and girly on her pudgy little finger! I love it too!

Thanks Auntie Tiff for such a thoughtful gift!

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Qade’s 5th Birthday

2012
05.08

I’m still in denial about Qade being 5, but he is very proud of that fact. :) He enjoys telling everyone, “I’m 5 now.” as if that was the goal all along. Though he has informed me that at his next birthday he’ll be 6 and then 7 after that, and so on. I feel like telling him to hold on and not get big so fast. BUT… you know how that goes. Especially with firstborn children. I remember being so impatient to turn 10 and again to turn 20. :) Too bad it goes so fast after that, ha!

Anyway, here are some fun shots from Qade’s birthday. We’ve had a hard time getting good video of his last couple of birthdays. One one, someone stepped in front of the camera at the very second he blew out his candles. This time, the place where I had it set up got a really great view of the back of Myles’ head right in front of everything Qade was doing. Ha! Oh well, it’s all good memories. The snapshots really say a lot too. :)

“I’m 5 now!” (not 10!)
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I was so happy that Aiden got to come to the birthday party! Qade and Aiden are best buds… until they’re not, but most of the time they are. ;)
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I planned the little “goody bags” for outside activities. It included a little foam glider plane, a big bouncy ball, and a tube of bubbles. Did I ever mention that it SNOWED the night before and the morning of the party? Oh yeah… so we played with planes and bubbles INSIDE this day. It all worked out. Myles “bubble blowing face” totally cracks me up!
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We were thrilled that our friends the Wilsons got to come too. Benton is always lots of fun!
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And Ella and Kathryn really enjoy each other’s company. Ella was feeding Kathryn all of HER lunch on this day. It was rather funny!
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Silly girl!
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The Cake! Something interesting about this cake. When we cut it open there was no middle layer of frosting between the sheets. Weird! That’s good ol’ Gallup for ya! (eyes rolling)
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Everyone had a great time opening gifts. I love how kids just kind of converge on the kid with the gifts like vultures. It totally cracks me up!
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They’re circling….
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Moving in…
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SCORE!!!
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(this photo of Benton with the magnifying glass really makes me laugh!)

It was a really fun day, and I know it will be one that Qade will remember and talk about for a long time! Thanks everyone who could come, and everyone who sent gifts! It was special for all of us!

Fitness Challenge

2012
05.07

So today starts our last week of the “official” fitness challenge. Yes, it’s true. It will be 63 days after starting out in March. When we started this it seemed like it would take forever, and now it’s nearly done! I am a week behind in my program because of the week when I was sick, blah. But I’ll still be finishing it. At the end of this week I get to take all of my measurements and “after” photos. I’m interested to see what those results will be.

I have to say that I’m SOOOO glad that I started this challenge. I did go into it a tad reluctantly because I was in a slump and LAZY and didn’t really want to put the effort into those insane workouts that I knew they would take. BUT a little competition goes a long way and now I can say that I’m super happy that I took that plunge.

The workouts are insane, especially this second month workouts, wow! I have seen myself grow stronger though. One day I actually did 16 pushups in a row, ON MY TOES!!! This, my friends, is progress! I have lost inches, I know, though I don’t know what the end result will be with all of my measurements, I’m a little nervous to take them. I’ve become more aware of my water intake (or lack of it, on some days) and now I rarely drink anything BUT water…. well, except my coffee in the morning, of course. ;) I’ve been working on eating more fruit and veggies, and that has been harder than I thought. I didn’t realize that I wasn’t eating enough of them before I started this challenge, but now that I think about it on a daily basis, I’ve been doing better with those.

The scale still isn’t my friend, though I have not been on it for a couple of weeks. At the beginning of the challenge I anticipated losing weight right off the bat because of the crazy cardio I’d be doing. Imagine my surprise when not only did I not lose any, but I actually gained in those first few weeks!! That wasn’t pleasant, but I’ve been learning, slowly, that I can’t measure my progress by the numbers on the scale. One of the coaches mentioned a gal who weight 140 and was a size 12 and then she was a size 2 and STILL weighed 140. :) That was encouraging to me because like I said before, if I could have those abs of the people in the video, I wouldn’t care if I weighed 200! :) Ha!

I’ve started making my workout time my “me” time. So instead of plopping on the couch with a good book or browsing the internet when the kids are napping, I use that time for my workouts. It’s helped me look forward to them more, and helped me enjoy them more. Sometimes I can’t get them done during the day and I do them at night after Ella is down. When that happens, I get the boys occupied doing something else, and remind them not to talk to me because I’m exercising. Besides… it’s hard to answer them when I’m just trying to breathe! :) And that’s another perk of the workouts. I thought that my breathing would be an impediment because it’s always seemed to be such a hurtle for me, but through these workouts I’ve gotten much better at controlling my breathing, and even when I’m breathing hard, it’s not going into that panicked asthma feeling. Nice. :)

So anyway, the challenge has been a huge boost to wellness/fitness for me. I’ve been tossing around the idea of starting my own challenge group for friends on facebook now that I know how successful they can be. Successful in lifestyle change for sure! I’m not sure if I’ll go for that right now or not, we’ll see. I also haven’t decided if I’ll publish my “results” to the blogospher yet either. There are so many intangible results that I’d hate to discourage anyone from trying it if they don’t think my tangible results are good enough. I will say though, that I did a little shopping last week and got several tops in a size SMALL!! And found a swimsuit that didn’t cause a complete mental breakdown. ;) This is progress indeed! ha ha! Some of the gals on my team are interested in continuing the challenge past the official end, so I’m going to keep on going strong. Start the program again, and see if I can still meet some of my own goals… the biggest being to banish the jelly belly for good. ;) Time will tell…..