Archive for June, 2011

Chicks Wrap-up


2011
06.30

The End.

All good things, and bad for that matter, must end. The last half day of the conference was just as amazing as the rest. We really didn’t want it to end at all. We heard from Graham Wilson more about Operation Smile, but he went beyond that and discussed a lot of great Facebook marketing things that he uses to target high school seniors in his own business. He’s doing something right because things are going very well for him. I appreciated his tips on that as it seems a lot of people are not as willing to share what is working for them. That’s understandable to a point, but I think that giving a little is a lot better way to influence people than staying walled up and crabby… just sayin’.

Anyway, after Graham we got to hear Vicki Taufer speak. She has one AMAZING story. She has been back in the country since Feb after spending 6 months in Nepal trying to bring home their adopted daughter. They had anticipated being gone for one at the most! It was an amazing story. The journey that she has been on is incredible! From her working for free basically out of her basement, to booming and growing into a HUGE studio space, to now reorganizing their business and actually shooting to be smaller. She shared lots of her experiences in Nepal, and the soul-searching that being there has forced her to do. It was an awesome session. Her whole point was “Joy in the Journey” and it’s good to remember that. No, you can’t neglect the numbers, or the fact that you are/have a business, but not to lose yourself in that is a good reminder. And near the end of her time her husband actually walked into the room with their little girl, and from the back you could hear a very distinct “Mama!” and that made everyone smile. :-)

The drive home was uneventful but not that fun. I was tired, and it’s uncomfortable to be the driver for so long. :-) But the time was good and since I’ve got so much to think about after soaking all that stuff up like a sponge, that a little quite time was nice. It was SOOOOO good to get home though. I just can’t say how much I enjoyed this time away, (I don’t think I really realized how much I needed it till I got back) but coming in and being enthusiastically greeted by Myles’ “Mom, your back! You’re back! You’re back!!!!” and of course nearly getting bowled over by his hug felt the best! Not to mention sniffin’ in my sweet Ella and having “serious” conversations with Qade about what he did while Grandma was there, and the comfortable hugs of my Hurb all worked together to just feel like HOME!

I learned a lot over the last 4 days, and I hope that it continues to sink in as some new ideas that I’ve planted begin to sprout, but right now it just feels good to be back! Ahhhhhhhhhhh!!! <— happy contented sigh!

Chicks who Click Day 3


2011
06.29

So day three of the conference was fantastic, of course! :-) This conference has exceeded above and beyond ANY of my expectations! I’ve enjoyed it so much and learned so much and had so much fun!

This day started with a yummy breakfast again. I forgot to mention that about yesterday’s, ha ha! And there was a session in the morning with Jenn Hudson, whom I’m sure will be making big waves in the photographic art world. She is already making little waves. :-) She spoke on enjoying your journey, and really finding what it is you love about photography and doing that with all of your soul really. The topic was good, and it was a good reminder especially when it really can get bogged feeling when you’re trying to balance the business aspect of it with your passion for photography. But some good thoughts. I wasn’t a fan of her style really, but I could still see the amazing in what she does.

So that was fun, but it just got better. :-) We had breakout sessions in the late morning and afternoon. I had a hard time deciding which ones to go to since I can’t be everywhere at once. I went to the newborn session first and it was good. Max was just as cute a baby as you’ll find, and his mom has quite the story to tell. Max was a 9 pound first baby and he was born in the car on the way to the hospital!!!! Oh yeah! Wow! But they’re both great, and he’s growing to be quite a little chunker boy who responds very well to his daddy’s “motorcycle” hum. :-)

I was a little disappointed because I really wasn’t able to capture much on that one. My 50mm is still “in the shop” and my other lens just could’t handle the lighting situation in that room. But it was informative and helpful.

The second session that I went to was a maternity session. I really wasn’t planning to go to that one at first, but they were doing it in a room with BIG windows and lots of light so I thought perhaps I might just get through with something after all!

When I got there I met our “model” Tina. She is an itty bitty petite gal with the CUTEST baby bump ever! Seriously, she was like the perfect pregnant person to do this session with. She was very willing to step out of her comfort zone, bless her heart, with what seemed like a million of us standing around staring at her. Her baby girl is due in August, and the name is a secret. She is just a glowing little mama and so excited about her baby. It was awesome! And I was actually able to get some good shots of her in this session. I’ve been challenged, like I wrote, to use the equipment that I have till I just can’t grow with them anymore. And yes, it would have been SOOOO much easier to have my 50, but I didn’t. So I popped on my 105mm lens, ha! The room was BIG. And I stood in the back and shot over everyone’s head. Not what I consider ideal, but it DID work! Then when we moved down to the more natural window light, I used my kit lens and got some good shots there as well. I know I can do this stuff, I just sometimes need to be pushed. :-)

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So that basically wrapped it up for day 3. I was so thrilled that I actually got to use my camera I got back and started editing right away and posted a shot to FB. :-) Ahhhhh… felt good!

Today the conference ends, and I will be heading home around noon. I’ve enjoyed meeting some amazing photographers and the people from PPA. I will certainly be joining as soon as the studio stables out. It’s a fantastic organization, and I just LOVE the charity work that they do. Stay tuned, I’ll letcha know all about the wrap up of the conference as well. I’m sorry it’s ending because it has been THAT GOOD, but I’ll be happy to get back to my babies and my Love!

Toodles

Chicks Day 2


2011
06.28

On the second day of the chicks who click conference we had several marketing sessions, which I ate up! The first was done by a lady from the Denver area named Sandy “Sam” Puc’. She started her photography biz when she was 18 and now has a payroll of 42 in her studio!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOW! She is also one of the founders of a charity called Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep or NILMDTS. That group provides professional photography services for families who’s baby did not/will not live. Sometimes older children as well but mostly newborns. It’s an amazing organization that I’ve been looking into for some time actually and think that I would like to be a part of in the future. I’m not there yet, but it’s good to know the opportunities that are out there to use photography to help people in ways you never thought possible. You should check it out!

Anyway, her session was not NEARLY long enough in my way of thinking. I would have liked to hear much much more from her, but she does do tours so perhaps I’ll have the chance to do that someday.

We also heard about other ways to use charitable marketing to actually help your business. I’m looking into the possibility of helping launch a new PPA charity called Smile Day. This conference that I am at is a charity event. The charity that the PPA supports is called Operation Smile and it helps children with cleft pallets. It’s amazing what they can do for those kids and families. And of course photography and smiling go hand in hand. It’s great!

There was a lot of information presented on Day 2, and I really enjoyed it. The photoshop session at the end got me inspired to try some of my own designs with the photos. I don’t use photoshop so some of it wasn’t usable, but the concepts certainly were. So stay tuned for all of the overflow from my inspiration. :-) I’ll have to test it all out on someone after all. ha ha ha!!

I met a couple gals who, like me, are just starting out. It was good to know that I’m not the only one. Some of the instructors have been talking about the recent Texas School that they just taught and of course I’m DROOLING to attend one of those. (okay, not really. don’t send me a bib, please. ha ha) But the one best piece of advice that I have discovered recently was in an amazing little article written to new photographers from someone who has been at it and making it work for a long time, and it was,

“- It’s easier to focus on buying that next piece of equipment than it is to accept that you should be able to create great work with what you’ve got. Buying stuff is a convenient and expensive distraction. You need a decent camera, a decent lens, and a light meter. Until you can use those tools consistently and masterfully, don’t spend another dime. Spend money on equipment ONLY when you’ve outgrown your current equipment and you’re being limited by it. There are no magic bullets.”

So that’s something that I need to keep in mind. Not just with my equipment, but with my desire for more learning. There are so many ways to grow as a photographer, but I can’t do them all… at least not all at once. ;-) I need to take and apply what I have learned from this conference and my last workshop, and then when I feel that I’ve exhausted all of that and need something fresh, I go again. :-)

That’s a wrap on Day 2. I skipped out on the “Girl’s Night Out” and went to P.F. Chang’s with my friend Angela. I got the better end of that deal for sure, cause after a very good dinner, (Who is p.f. chang btw?) we finished off the evening with some good old chocolate moose tracks icecream! YUM!!!! I’ll take that over martinis and dancing polls any day!

Clickin’ Chicks Day One


2011
06.27

So today began the chicks who click conference. This is my first conference of this kind, so I didn’t really know what to expect, but I am enjoying it. Social situations aren’t my most comfortable place to be…. okay…. they stress me out, how’s that for some truth. But honestly I am/do work on it regularly. I realize that it’s a weakness of mine and I make conscience effort to do better. And I believe that I am seeing progress, but it’s still not my favorite thing. But I’m more than willing to tackle an army of strangers to get some more tools in my photography belt. Oh yeah. ;-)

The first day didn’t start till late afternoon because it was registration and all of that. I did meet some other photogs and get to chat some about what makes them tick, and that’s fun! Since I’ve found it so difficult to find an actual mentor I have been finding them in other places like FB and such. That makes this a prime opportunity to really learn a lot and pick up some great inspiration as well.

Last night I met Tira of Tira J Young photography, and Jennifer Price of Focus Photographers. It was fun to get to chat with them, and swap cards. I for sure feel like the “greenie” of the bunch, though I know there are other newbie photogs there as well. I met a jolly gal from the Fort Worth area who I’m sure has NO issues getting people to smile as her’s just lights up the room. I also met Heather from AZ who does awesome work with babies and gave me some advice on some “must have” baby workshops.

So I’m soaking it all in… well, almost all. ;-) I avoid the “happy hour” free wine and such. Just the smell makes my stomach turn. Part of why I’m not much of a socialite I suppose. ;-) ??Still I’ve been very pleased with the gals I’ve met and haven’t felt the least bit snubbed, which was a bit of a concern considering some of the drama that goes on with photogs on line. Ha! The last session I went to last night was a lady who’s been doing photography for a long time, and is good!! She shoots film, still, and doesn’t know a thing about photoshop which I find absolutely awesome! It’s one of my major goals to be a “first capture” shooter, though I will probably always play with the levels a LEEEETILE bit. ;-) Anyway, she talked about a gallery show that she did and how she got all of that together. Stuart and I have already come up with a personal project of that kind that we would like to do, so it was neat to see it worked out with what she did.

Great times! I’m really looking forward to today and what they have planned. I’ll be skipping the evening “girl’s night out” gathering, but don’t worry, they’ll have more fun without me, and I’ll for sure be having more fun. I’m really excited about some of the break-out sessions that are coming up on Saturday. So I’ll keep you all informed.

Have a great weekend! Wait… it’ll be over when you read this. Hmmmmm… Hope you HAD a great weekend in that case. Toodles!

3 at 8 Months


2011
06.26

Here they are, our 3 at 8 months! Can you believe how fast this first year for Ella is flying!!!? I sure can’t! I love looking through their pictures each month though. It reminds me of their differences and similarities, and is just so fun!

Qade at 8 months now boggles my mind. I probably didn’t appreciate it while we were in the midst of it, just how “advanced” he was in his motor skills. Since he is the first we didn’t have anyone to compare him to, so it just was normal. But the fact that he was doing THIS at 8 months now makes me think, “Wow!”
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In some of his other pics, he was already cruising around furniture, and “helping” me pull laundry out of the basket. Yep…. I didn’t realize it then, but I do now! What a big boy! Not that I mind that the other 2 weren’t as mobile so fast, oh no!

Here’s my Myles! I love this picture of him. I think it was just SO cute the way he thought thumbsucking was a 2 hand event! So so cute!!! It morphed later on. I told you how he’d tap on his nose and lip with his “free” hand. Then it progressed to him pushing his earlobe on his “free” side into his ear. He’d go back and forth between the lip-tapping and the ear lobe pushing. LOL! I’m glad that he has given up his thumb so that it’s one less battle that we have to fight together, but in a way I miss it too. :-)
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LOOK at all that hair!!! Ella would be jealous if she knew enough to care! ;-) Can’t believe how much hair this little lad had! He still does! It’s so thick that it’s hard for me to cut it to look right. Hmmm….. I’m contemplating just giving them a close buzz for summer time anyway!

Ella girl! She’s such a sweetie. This little girl is SO content. I need to take some lessons from her, really. Not much rocks her boat, and crying and tears are rare with her. She’s gotten so much better about smiling at and going to other people. She still likes Mommy best though, and I’m treasuring those moments now to cherish later when I may not always be her favorite person. :-) LOVE my little girl! I think that she is actually giving kisses now from time to time. Very sweet! She still wants nothing to do with food. I can get about 3 bites into her before the jaws clamp shut and it’s just not going to happen. I’m working on it though. We have a little practice each day and I know eventually she’ll decide to like food too. Ha! She’s sitting up better this month, and I’ve been letting her practice that more as well. She loves her exercauser, especially the couple times I’ve taken it outside for her. She’ll be an outside lover just like her bros, I can tell! Ella is sleeping in her own room and doing a fantastic job. She has become a bit more flexible with her schedule and doesn’t melt down if it’s “messed” with for at least a couple of days. She now has 2 top teeth to match the bottom and has learned to grind them! Ugh!!! That sound just makes my spine tingle! The boys both did that when they were first discovering their teeth as well. I just hope it’s short lived! Ella still does not suck any fingers and is even reluctant to put toys in her mouth. One day she had a little ball with rubber knobby things on it and she slowly brought it to her lips with this look on her face that seemed to say, “Is this okay?” ha ha ha! She didn’t open her mouth for it, but she did feel it on her face. Such a funny cutie pie! She doesn’t have a problem opening up for her bottle though. She thinks she’s pretty big stuff holding it all on her own as well. Funny girl!DSC_7068

So there ya have it. My 2 Monkeys and my Punky Munkin’. Love em!

8 month Ella


2011
06.25

Here’s our “Ella de Bella’s” 8 month photo shoot pics. I think my Dad was the first one who called our girlie Ella Bella, and it’s kinda stuck, but now Qade has been telling people that her name is Ella da (the?) Bella. LOL! Cracks me up!

Anyway, I was playing with my new damask curtain backdrop. As you’ll probably notice it needs a little more work. I’ve got to figure out how to get it pulled tight enough that it looks like a wall rather than a curtain. :-) Practice practice.

I sat Ella up on her own for these shots. She’s been practicing, but still isn’t very stable. She did pretty well, though she didn’t want to pick her hands up off the floor after rolling over once on it. :-) She’s such a tolerant baby! I’m still manually focusing my 50mm lens and that’s rough with a little one. One of my fav features of the lens was that it was so “fast” and I could snag little ones on the move really easily with it. Now it’s just about worthless. Grrrrr! Will be making a call to Nikon to see if they have any suggestions for it.

But anyway, here are a few of Ella’s shots. Enjoy!
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Exercise


2011
06.24

So since the secession from the slow-carb diet, I have been reworking my workouts and such. I am still determined to lose more weight, though honestly I could deal with the numbers where I am. I just want a little more wiggle room in my “skinny” clothes. ;-) The jelly-belly really gets me, but I don’t know if it will EVER go away. I need to be patient. That poor thing has been pulled all out of shape over the last 4 years with 3 babies. Ha ha! I can feel my abs under the goo though so I know that they are strong and they are working… just wish it was visible on top. *sigh*

Anyway, that was free, and I’m sure now that you’re all thoroughly disgusted you don’t even care about what I’m going to do for workouts this summer, but I’ll tell ya anyway. ;-)

I have been walking more as I had planned before. Yesterday I even jogged a little. Not much, but some. I have some songs on my iPod shuffle that just NEED to be jogged to. :) So that has been going well. I am still doing the kettle bell and crunches on the exercise ball. Those have been going well too! I’m working up to 75 reps on the kettle bell, but right now can usually only do 45 before taking a short break. Since we are adding in Insanity. I will be doing the kettle bell and crunches on off days. So basically I will be doing SOMETHING 6 days a week. It’ll be good, and even if the numbers on my stinkin’ scale (as if it’s the scale’s fault!) don’t change the way I want them to, I can tell by the way my clothes fit that I’m still getting into better shape.

Well, that’s the plan. I’m pretty sore after my first INSANITY day, so we’ll see how it goes. I’m glad that I don’t have to do it again today! Ha ha!

I had some of my little walnut butter cookies with a cup of decaf last night and didn’t feel the least bit guilty about it. Eating reasonably and exercising are really the way to go. Starving and binging aren’t so fun, nope!

Jungle Jam


2011
06.24

Qade’s favorite audio stories right now are Jungle Jam stories. We were introduced to these hilarious stories by my bro James and his wife Joy. They are stories with morals extracted from Bible verses. Somewhat like Veggie Tails, but not… better actually. ;-) They have quite a few memorable characters and it totally cracks me up that Qade will discuss the characters and quote the stories from time to time. Two of the characters are Carl and Olaff. Yesterday while the lads were washing the daily grime off in the tub I asked Qade what they had done outside. They had been playing in the wagon. He told me that they were in a “boat” and went to see Carl and Olaff. Then he informed me that it was, “just pretend” in case I was concerned that he was really sailing across the sea to Razzelflaven Island. LOL!! That boy’s mental processes are too quick for me to keep up with, but it keeps me humored as well. ??This morning at breakfast Qade asked, “Can we listen to the Whistling Frichetta’s” story. Ha!

Anyway, Jungle Jam is by Fancy Monkey Studio, so if you’re interested in them for your own small ones you can give that a try. I’m going to be looking at getting some more since the ones that we do have are practically memorized already anyway. I don’t know if they are still “around” or not, but its on my list of things to look up when I get to an internet spot.

King’s Hawaiian Bread


2011
06.23

Have I told you all just how much I love Hawaiian bread? I do!! Not only is it simply delish, but it has very warm memories attached to it for me. I got the recipe from an amazing older lady who was one of the friendliest people I knew while we were in Greenville. She was such an enormous blessing to me!! I think of her often when I make “her” bread. She was amazing and of course made it the old fashioned way while I cheat and let the bread machine do all the mixing and kneading. After I had Qade and was struggling with baby blues and packing our apartment to move, and nursing issues, and sleep deprivation, this lady was an angel of mercy for me. I can’t remember the number of times that she ‘stopped by’ with some of her amazing bread or some fresh strawberries from the farmer’s market in those few weeks after Qade was born. I’ll never forget her kindness and often think back to that experience when people I know are having babies and try to pass it on to them.

Anyway, I’m making some bread today and it got me thinking again of Mrs. Nutz. I’ll put the recipe on here, since I’m not sure I’ve done it before. If you bake bread at all, you really need to try this! It’s like no bread you’ve ever had and will completely spoil all that store bought stuff forever. ;-) If that’s not incentive to try it, I don’t know what is! :-) I thought that Stuart would have a hard time switching from store bread to homemade when I first got the bread maker, but after tasting this stuff he said (more than once) that he NEVER wants to go back! Ha ha!! Today will be my first trial run since our oven came home, so I’m anxious to see how it turns out. Also I ditched my dollar store bread pans after the black bread incident, and splurged on some sturdy glass ones, and this will be the first time using those. They are larger than the others, so I only got 3 of them. I think it’ll work out fine with the amount of dough that this recipe makes. That’s the thing, this does make a LOT of dough, so if you’re using a machine, like me, you need to be sure it can handle this much. Some of them are smaller, so you’d need to probably half the recipe for one of those. If you do decide to do it by hand it won’t matter. Ha!

So here you go, from Mrs. Nutz, via me, King’s Hawaiian Bread:

You’ll have to put the ingredients in the way your bread maker suggests. This is what I do.

6 c. flour (I usually do 4 AP and 2 Whole wheat)
3/4 c. sugar
1/2 t. ginger
1/2 c. margarine (I used butter one time and it was a dismal failure, if you do use butter be sure to really soften it first)
3 eggs (recipe calls for beating them, but I just chuck em’ in)
1 t. vanilla
1 c. pineapple juice
1 c. water
2 pkg yeast. (I use bulk yeast from Costco so I put in about 4 t.)

I always do it on dough mode and then shape loaves and let them rise before baking them in the oven. So they rise for about 45 min then bake at 350* for 20-30 min. Makes 3 9×5 loaves or 4 8×4 loaves.

Let me know if you try it and what you think of the bread. :-) You can also use the dough to make delish clover rolls by putting 3 small balls of dough in each cup of a muffin tin. Bake and brush with melted butter after baking. YUMMERS!!

Wednesday


2011
06.22

It’s Wednesday. (last week)

So far most of my plans for this summer have failed me. Or maybe I’ve failed them… guess that’s more likely.

Tomorrow is a new day and I’m turning over a new “weaf.” Isn’t it nice that we get so many chances to “do over” in life? I’m glad God made it work out that way, cause we’d all be in such a pickle if we couldn’t try again. And the little motto that has stuck in my head ever since I read the book from the “Library on Wheels” when I was in Kindergarden or maybe 1st grade, “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again!” That book has always stuck in my brain. I distinctly remember the poor little mouse trying to push an Elephant up a very steep hill. :-) Ha! I should see if I can find it. It might be a good book to read to my own rather impatient Monkeys.

So tomorrow’s good intentions are going to start with rising earlier than my kids. The boys have become SO bad about trying to beat down their door in the mornings, and let me tell you, it does not make for a happy momma first thing. I’ve been meaning to get up earlier anyway, but for whatever reason we haven’t been sleeping well in our house. Not one of us. Ella is dealing with teeth and the lads are just possessed with a spirit of sleep denial. THEY won’t go to bed till 9 sometimes 10pm and that makes for a harried evening for this Ma. THEN recently one or both of them have been waking one or more times a night with some crisis or another. From having to go poop at midnight, really??? to being “stirsty” or needing their blankets “spread out” it’s been quite the production. Whew! But regardless. I need to get up, I have no excuse, and I’m completely ashamed of myself for being so lazy.

Something else that I have been working on, but need to think up some new strategies in is curbing our lads’ behavior. *sigh* It has been nice to have Stuart home since summer break started because he has assumed a lot of the discipline responsibility with the boys, but they have surely been outdoing themselves lately. I have to admit, though some may think I’m a horrible person for saying it, but I am not enjoying our lads much right now. Yes, they say cute things and are funny every day, but the seeming constant battles seem to overshadow all. :-( Ella is so sweet even though she is teething, although she has discovered a little “fit” of her own. But mostly it’s the boys behavior that gets me down. They just about refuse to get along for more than 5 minutes these days unless they are doing something naughty, then they’re the best of pals. Qade has developed the deplorable habit of talking back, and that’s complicating matters. Myles is showing his 2 yr old colors brightly by balking at any and all instructions the majority of the time.

I know that this is a “season” and it will pass. Qade is so much more communicative and makes the most interesting connections to current conversations and past ones or things that he’s heard and seen. I know that the wheels in his head are turning, and when I told him this morning that disobeying mommy was sin, he looked very surprised, but he knows that it’s true. Myles is only 2 and doesn’t make all of those connections, and I know the best way to get through to him is consistent discipline, but between his outright disobedience, and near constant whining, I feel like the entire day is just one huge discipline problem. Add the frequent issues with Qade in, and you have the recipe for some really wiped out parents. So pray for us and our kiddos if you think of it. There are a lot of fun things we want to do together, and so far it’s difficult for ANYONE to have fun when such bad behavior and subsequent corrections are going on the whole time.

Anyway, I just needed to vent about that a bit. I get really tired and run down by the constant battles. Need a break and a recharge!

I’ll be getting both when I go to the Chicks who Click conference later this month! I’m super excited about that! It’s fun to learn more about photography and how to become better on many levels! I’ve been browsing the pages of my camera manual, which I do from time to time because my brain doesn’t absorb much at a once. ;-) And I’m discovering new stuff all the time. It’s nice to be able to grow in what you love to do because it keeps it from becoming boring. :-)

Oh, some good news! Our oven is back and it’s working like it never worked before! I baked some cookies yesterday and they turned out fabulous!! I purposely heated the oven to the temp on the recipe (I’ve always had to turn it lower before because it would get too hot) and I purposely left them in the oven for the exact time instead of taking them out early like I had to do before. I was SO pleased to see it working the right way, and was pleasantly shocked that I didn’t see any flames coming up from the bottom of the oven. Maybe this was a no brainer that the fames shouldn’t be coming through there, but like I said, my experience with gas stoves has been nil up till now, and that’s always what happened with this stove so I assumed it was normal. :-) Now I’m actually looking forward to baking in that oven!! I need to give it a good cleaning first though. The blackened bread incident doesn’t make the insides look or smell good, that’s for sure!

Okay, I’m off to comfort a poor teething little lass of mine. Hope they come through soon. Poor girl!