Thanks for all of you who were in prayer for Stellan today! God heard, and answered our prayers in ways to astound us, as usual!! You have got to read McMamma’s blog post about it HERE. But I’ll just tell you that after LOTS of complications they were able to get into Stellan’s heart and COMPLETELY FIX his SVT!!!! Wow! God is SO good!! Just another reminder that He’s got the whole world in His hands!
Archive for November, 2009
Happy Post :-)
11.09
So here is my promised post on more happy topics.
My boys:
This is always a happy topic, even when it’s not.
I’m very thankful for my lads! They bring 100x more smiles than they do frowns so I can’t complain. Myles took his first 2-3 independent steps the other day. Nov 3. Qade actually egged him on, unknowingly, and was in shock as he watched his little brother walk. Myles was standing at my knee and at Qade’s invitation to come over and explore the bathroom (something they shouldn’t be doing) he turned around and walked!! Qade got this surprised look on his face and said, “Miles walk?!” It was hilarious!!! I had to laugh out loud before I closed them out of the bathroom. Qade can open that door so he thinks it’s great fun for he and Myles to go in there for some extra “fun.” Myles is pretty proud of himself when he stands unassisted now. He will get this “Woo-hoo, look what I’m doing” expression on his face. He can balance for quite some time, but then he usually psyches himself out and sits down laughing. The other night he was standing at Stu’s knee totally leaning on the chair, but he’d raise his hands up with this HUGE grin and look at us like, “Look, no hands!” So funny!! We’ve been helping him practice standing, but I know it won’t be long before he takes off running after his brother! Myles loves to chatter all the time now. When I go get him up from his naps there’s a running commentary going on before I even reach the crib. Of course, I don’t understand what he’s saying, but I pipe in anyway.
Qade’s vocabulary, not to mention his memory, is really taking off! Stuart got some body armor stuff to wear running in the mornings, and when it came he put the logo sticker on Myles back. That was last week sometime. This morning Qade noticed the logo on Stuart’s shirt and asked him what it was. Stu told him it was a logo, and Qade responded, “logo on Myles.” He has a great memory! Lately he has added an “a” to the end of a lot of his words, so now I’m often “Mommy-a”.
Maybe he’s secretly Italian. Ha ha ha! Coloring has become one of Qade’s most favorite things to do. When we go to restaurants that pass out crayons and a paper he’ll actually sit there for most of the meal, barely taking time out for his food, and color that paper till there’s hardly room for any more color. He knows the colors Green, Blue, Orange, Yellow, Red, Brown, Black, White, and sometimes Purple.
He counts to three and sometimes five.
He knows that he is 2 and Myles is 1. He also remembers names MUCH better than me. Qade now LOVES going to Sunday School! Yesterday as they were walking to the car after church, Qade was telling Stuart, “Church fun!” He also likes to tell me that he likes things. “Qade like chocolate milk!” It’s cute! He is also caring of others and will say, “Are you okay?” whenever he feels it’s appropriate.
His manners are a little TOO good because now if ever we ask him to do something his response is, “Say Peeeeees!” And yesterday after that he also added, “Say, yeah” I have no idea where THAT came from. Out of his head I suppose. We have to work on him with that some because he needs to obey without a bunch of stipulations.
He also thinks it’s the coolest think in the world to say “Ya Wecome.” He LOOKS for opportunities to say it, but it’s still in context. He’s our big boy for sure, and way too smart for his or our own good, but we’re all learning together, and having a very fun time.
So there you have it. Great reasons to smile.
Have a fun Monday!
Pray for Stellan!!!
11.09
I’m keeping up, as fast as I’m able, with Stellan’s situation. My heart just goes out to this family. It’s weird for me to feel such an emotional connection to people whom I have NEVER and probably won’t ever meet. Still, there baby is the age of mine and that’s a close enough connection I suppose.
Anyway, Stellan went into SVT this morning right after missing his meds, and then he crashed very fast after that. He was admitted and is on IV’s and intubated, but if you want all the details go HERE and read what McMamma wrote about it. All of that to say that they may very well be moving his surgery up to tonight or tomorrow morning. Please pray for the little guy, and his brave mommy. Also pray that his Dad will be able to find a flight to get him there before the surgery. I’m sure he really wants that.
This procedure is complicate for several reasons for little Stellan. McMamma has blogged about it, but I’ll just tell ya so you can pray specifically. This “wiring” issue in his heart is very close to his AV Node (and no I’m not medical in any way shape or form, but am learning a lot through Stellan’s experience) so if the AV Node is damaged during the ablation then Stellan will have to have open-heart surgery to put in a pace-maker. He’d then be dependent on that for the rest of his life. Also just because he is so small there’s a higher rick.
So that’s the latest I’ve heard. I know you all are praying along with me in this situation.
There’s another request that I became aware of today. It’s a long complicated story so I’ll do my best to make it short. A church that has sent teens to our camp was started about 2 and a half years ago by a guy I went to college with. They were headed for the mission field and had already raised support when their baby was born with a very rare condition. She was not expected to live long, but God has plans for this family. They started the church as a plant so that they could be in the states for the baby’s health care. They fully intended to go to the mission field once the little one had gone to heaven. She was quite the miracle baby though and trip after trip to the hospital she astounded doctors. The family finally decided that God really wanted them at this church, which has an amazing growth story for a baby church, wow!! So they changed “their” life plans, well God changed it for them. This past Saturday little 2 1/2 yr old Eliana went home to be with Jesus. I know the family and church family there will appreciate prayers for their hurting hearts at this time. Thank God for that little life who unknowingly was the means for a new ministry to begin and thrive! God can use the smallest among us!! It’s a good reminder.
Anyway, sorry for all the gloomy posts recently. I’ll try to find some very happy and exciting news to share.
Tomorrow I’ll write a post about some of the cuteness that has been going on in my family lately. I’ve been saving it up, but I believe it’s time for it.
Nigh-night!
The Real Story on Stellan
11.08
Okay, so I’ve been getting my details all wacky with what lil Stellan is going to be doing. I thought his procedure was Friday, but turns out he is being admitted to the childrens’ hospital TOMORROW, and then the actual ablation will be done on Tuesday. SO please keep the family and lil baby boy in prayer this week. It seems like quite the ordeal for them, but they are handling it with grace.
Here is the “real details” on the whole thing from McMamma if you care to read it.
Hope you all have been having a fabulous weekend!! I certainly have, and tomorrow we get our new dishwasher too!!! Wooo-Hoooo… I’ve been “ever so patiently” waiting for that!!! ![]()
Ta ta!
Tough Stuff
11.07
Seems I keep running across sad circumstances like THIS, but I’m trying to apply them as personal growth lessons. I’m certainly not looking for sad stories, especially ones about children. I’m a mommy, I don’t like to think about sick babies, or 5 yr olds with cancer, but real people are really going through these things. It reminds me to be thankful for what I have, not take it for granted, and remember that there are people out there who need prayer and to spread encouragement where I’m able. That’s why I’m going to send this little boy and early Christmas card. I hope that you will too! It’s something small, and easy that could potentially mean a lot!
Phantom
11.06
Hi friends! Last night Stu and I got to see The Phantom of the Opera!! It was absolutely amazing!! I told him it was our best date ever! I know Phantom inside and out since I’ve been a fan since the sixth grade, but I was still surprised by the amazing stage effects! Wow! So yeah, if you ever have the opportunity to see it, do!! It’s spectacular! Ahhhhhh…… now I can die happy. ![]()
Today is going to be such a fun day! My inlaws are bringing down the boys and we’re all going to the zoo!!! I know Qade is going to love it, and I can’t wait to see the looks on his face when he gets to see the animals. He has been ‘reading’ a new favorite book about baby animals, and loves to point out the “Daddy Penguin” and the “Mommy Panda” and so on. One day when we got to the baby otter’s page with 2 otters wrestling he said one was “Qade Otter” and the other was “Myles Otter” Ha!! This kid cracks me up! But the zoo today is going to be awesome, and this zoo has been rated one of the top 5 zoo’s in the nation for kids! Yay!
Psssst….. I secretly love a zoo too! I admit it, I’m an animal lover too!
So I will post pictures later! Hope you are all having just as amazing a weekend as we are!
Oh, and I think I was off a little bit about Stellan’s schedule. He is going into the Children’s hospital today, and they will then take him off his meds, and get him to go into SVT. The actual ablation will probably be in the next few days. Just keep the family in prayer. I’ll let you know when/if I hear any news about it.
Toodles!
Stellan’s Friday
11.06
Hey Friends! Please pray for baby Stellan on Friday! It’s the day scheduled for his heart ablation. I know his Mommy could use a lot of prayer support. I think of our little Myles and my hear aches for McMamma. Pray for the family, the doctors, and that sweet little baby boy! Thanks!
The Ugly Sister
11.04
Myles has the coolest Bible story book ever that some friends gave him. He isn’t terribly interested in the stories yet, they are a bit long, but I love the illustration and story telling method in it!! So tonight as I was looking for something to read to Qade, I came across the story of Leah. I suppose since I was named after Rachel that I always kind of took her perspective in the story.
But the first time I read this story, put this way, my heart nearly broke for Leah! In the Biblical account they ALL made mistakes, but I’ve always tended to think kind of meanly of Leah. Looking at it from her perspective though has put some new life into the old story for me. So… that being said, I’m going to type it out here for YOU to read and think about. Tell me what your perception has always been of “the ugly sister”
The Girl No One Wanted
There were once two sisters. The youngest sister was very beautiful and her name was Rachel. But the oldest sister wasn’t beautiful at all (some thought her quite ugly). and her name was Leah.
Rachel was the kind of girl who always gets invited to parties and chosen for the team. Everyone loved her. And poor Leah? No one hardly even noticed her.
One day, their cousin Jacob came to stay. He was one of Isaac’s sons and he was on the run. (Jacob had stolen and cheated and made some enemies- including his brother- and now he was hiding.)
The funny thing is, Jacob- of all people- was the one God gave the special promise to: “I will rescue the world through your family.” (But then God chooses people we least expect, as we’ll see.)
Jacob stayed a long time working for his Uncle Laban. One day Laban said, “Jacob, I’ve decided to pay you for your work What do you want?” A sudden thought struck him. “How about one of my daughters?”
Jacob looked at Rachel and he looked at Leah. Who would he choose? Of course, he chose Rachel.
“I’ll work seven years for free!” Jacob said. “If I can marry Rachel.”
So Jacob worked seven years and at last his wedding day arrived.
But that night, Laban played a nasty trick on Jacob. Instead of sending Rachel to marry Jacob, he sent Leah. (Now, in those days, they didn’t have electricity, so it was dark in their tent and, besides, women wore veils and you couldn’t see their faces properly. So Jacob suspected nothing.)
The next morning, Jacob woke up- and screamed. His new wife was lying beside him but it wasn’t Rachel- it was Leah. Jacob jumped out of bed. “Laban!” he cried. “You scoundrel!”
But Laban said “Work for me another seven years and then you can marry Rachel.”
So Jacob worked for Laban another seven years and, at last, Rachel became his wife. Now Jacob had two wives, but of his two wives, Jacob loved Rachel the best.
“No one loves me,” Leah said, “I’m too ugly.”
But God didn’t think she was ugly. And when he saw that Leah was not loved and that no one wanted her, God chose her- to love her specially, to give her a very important job. One day, God was going to rescue the whole world- through Leah’s family.
Now when Leah knew that God loved her, in her heart, suddenly it didn’t matte anymore whether her husband loved her the best, or if she was the prettiest. Someone had chosen her, someone did lover- with a Never Stopping, Never Giving Up, Unbreaking, Always and Forever Love.
So when Leah had a baby boy she called him Judah, which means, “This time I will praise the Lord!” And that’s just what she did.
And you’ll never guess what job God gave Leah.
You see, when God looked at Leah, he saw a princess. And sure enough, that’s exactly what she became. One of Leah’s children’s children’s children would be a prince- the Prince of Heaven -God’s Son.
This Prince would love God’s people. They wouldn’t need to be beautiful for him to love them. He would love them with all of his heart. And they would be beautiful because he loved them.
Like Leah.
I know it takes a creative license, but it’s a good story, and makes ya think.
At least it did me, but simple stories are the best I’ve found.
Just a few
11.03
I couldn’t resist posting some of the pics I snapped of the boys yesterday.
I know mother-love, but I won’t appologise.
You know they’re just the cutest ever anyway! ![]()
So without further ado… and because I’m having a terrible time typing today… You don’t even want to know how many times I’ve hit the backspace key for this one very short blurb. Good grief!
Pictures!

This is one of my very favorite pictures of Qade, EVER!

It’s difficult to get them together looking at the camera, let alone both smiling, so I think this is a pretty good one.

Oma, I think he was watching some birds. He really enjoys that!

I love the sun in this shot! I love the sweet little boy too.
He totally makes the shot!!

We had a great play-date today, and I completely enjoyed the grown up time too!!
I didn’t take pictures though, maybe another time. We plan to make it a weekly thing as much as possible! I know the boys will benefit from having that “kiddie” interaction, and I’m positive that I will benefit from a friendship outside the fam!
God is good to provide what we need when we need it. I’ve felt for a quite some time now that I really do need some “outside” adult relationships for my own personal growth and development as well as just plain ol’ fun! I have some great friends that I get to visit with whenever we’re at camp, but that’s not as often as I like. Now there’s an opportunity for a new friendship, and while I’m not good (as in probably the worst ever, no joke) at making new friends, I’m going to do my dead level best to develop this one. ![]()
Hope you all have had a brilliant Tuesday. I’m off to enjoy some chocolate and coke- ha ha- and a little Pride and Prejudice before I have to decide what to make for dinner. I’m a little at a loss… send me some suggestions.